New to dating apps? Create a profile nobody scrolls past and finally get real right swipes
New to dating apps? Use these fun and practical tips to build the most attractive profile, authentic photos, smart prompts and a bio that sparks conversation.
Whether you’ve just downloaded your first dating app or you’re returning after a dramatic uninstall moment, one thing stands true: your profile is your first impression. It’s your digital handshake, your trailer, your chance to make someone stop scrolling. And in a world where attention spans are shorter than voice notes, crafting an attractive profile is equal parts art and strategy.
If you’re thinking about what to write or which photos to add, don’t worry. Here’s a fun and practical guide from a Gen Z girl who’s been on more dating apps than she’d like to admit; sharing real, tried-and-tested tips to help you build a profile that feels confident, authentic and absolutely impossible to scroll past.
Step 1: Choose photos that tell a story
Your pictures are the first thing people notice, long before they read your bio. Instead of relying on one overly filtered selfie, let your gallery represent different aspects of you.
What works brilliantly:
- A clear smiling photo – shows approachability
- Full-body picture – helps build transparency
- A candid laugh or moment of joy – feels natural
- Photos showing hobbies (reading, sports, music, art, travel)
- One well-dressed photo because style speaks
What to avoid:
- Sunglasses in every photo (you do have eyes, right?)
- Group pictures where nobody knows which one you are
- Gym mirror selfies with protein shake
Golden rule: If your friends wouldn’t immediately recognise you from your profile pictures, rethink them.
Step 2: Write a bio that feels like a conversation starter
Your bio shouldn’t be a resume or a mystery puzzle. It should feel like an invitation to chat.
Bio formats that always win:
- The playful one
“Good coffee, long drives, badly sung 90s songs. Your move.”
- The honest one
“Introvert who loves dogs, bookstores and people who don’t ghost.”
- The prompt-answer style
Green flag: honesty, kindness and humour
I’ll fall for you if: you send me a great meme first
- The unexpected twist
“Looking for someone to tell me whether pineapple belongs on pizza.”
Tip: Use humour or specificity. “I love movies” = basic.
“I’ve watched Dil Chahta Hai 27 times and can recite every dialogue” = intriguing.
Step 3: Show your personality through prompts
If your dating app has prompts, pick ones that spark curiosity.
Strong examples:
- One thing you should know about me: I think breakfast foods are elite at all hours.
- My ideal Sunday: Farmer’s market → naps → Netflix → hot chocolate.
- Non-negotiable: Respect, emotional intelligence and good communication.
Step 4: State what you want (without sounding intense)
Clarity doesn’t scare the right person; it attracts them.
- “Looking for something meaningful, taking things slow.”
- “Open to connection—let’s see where it goes.”
Avoid extremes like:
- “No hookups, no drama, no timepass, no liars.”
(Too negative and defensive)
Instead reframe positively:
- “Here for genuine connection and good energy.”
Step 5: Add interests and music to increase matches
Most apps match based on common interests, so fill them in thoughtfully.
Add:
- favourite artists
- books you’re reading
- travel bucket list
- hobbies
- go-to karaoke song
- pet parent details
People swipe right on familiarity and emotional overlap.
Step 6: Make the opening line easy
If your profile gives people something to respond to like the pizza debate, they’re less likely to start with “hey”.
Give them hooks, not puzzles.
Step 7: Keep it real
The most attractive thing about a profile is not unreal perfection, it's keeping it real and authentic.
Say goodbye to:
- pretending to like trekking if you hate walking
- borrowed humour from Pinterest boards
- photos with your ex awkwardly cropped out
People fall for sincerity, confidence and comfort.
Final Swipe-Right checklist:
- Clear smiling profile photo
- At least 4–5 authentic pictures
- Bio that feels human & fun
- Real interests & prompts filled
- Clear intention written thoughtfully
- No negativity or exaggeration
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