Fear of abandonment from childhood can have traumatising impact on our adult relationships as well. We learn to internalise that fear and it shows up in our behavioural patterns. "Abandonment wounds run deep, often shaping our self-esteem in profound ways. From internalising rejection to fearing intimacy, the impact is real," wrote Therapist Allyson Kellum-Aguirre.(Unsplash)
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When we carry the abandonment wound in us, we believe that we are fundamentally unlovable and unworthy. (Unsplash)
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Abandonment issues can fuel negative self-talk. The harsh self-critic in us can make us feel that we do not deserve to be loved and cared for. (Unsplash)
We often end up avoiding investing in deeper connections because we feel that we will be abandoned. This further makes us feel unworthy and creates a vicious cycle. (Unsplash)
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Abandonment wound can drive us to strive for perfectionism in order to avoid criticism and failure. However, this can also make us feel unworthy. (Unsplash)
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Heidi Klum has cemented herself as the official Queen of Spooky Season, thanks to her wild, weird, and eccentric costumes every year for her annual Halloween bash.
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Huang Zitao, also known as Z Tao or Tao, is a Chinese rapper, singer, producer, and actor who was a former member of the K-pop group EXO. He married actor and singer Xu Yiyang on October 16, 2025, in a grand ceremony held in China. The wedding was a spectacular affair, featuring multiple outfit changes. Here's a look at Xu Yi Yang's 10 gowns from her showstopping wedding. (All pics Reddit/ popculturechat and Instagram/ mayadstudios)
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Diwali, the festival of lights, will be celebrated this year on October 20, marking the victory of good over evil. During this time, families clean and decorate their homes, light diyas, and share sweets to welcome prosperity.
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Models including Adriana Lima, Bella Hadid, Jasmine Tookes, Gigi Hadid and Alessandra Ambrosio appear together on the runway during the 2025 Victoria's Secret Fashion Show in New York City on October 15.
